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Open Marriages – The Mark Forrest Show
On May 21, 2013
Here’s a cut of all the audio pertaining to the open-relationship discussion from the Mark Forrest Show on May 14th ’13.
I live-tweeted a stream of vitriol towards the totally-off-topic discussion of infidelity and affairs, the screamingly blatant sexism, and the shameless fact-avoidance of many contributors but, for once, I shall spare you. After all, [...]
On Ink, My Skin, And You..
On May 17, 2013
An open letter to the men of London, specifically male cashiers and baristas..
Dear, … Oh I’m terribly sorry – I don’t appear to know you?
I don’t know your name or how to address you, this is awkward!
Where to begin? I couldn’t be more clueless as to your mood or state of [...]
BBC Radio – Non-Monogamy Drinkalong!
On May 14, 2013
I’ve agreed to speak about non-monogamy on tonight’s ‘Mark Forrest Evening Show’ live across 39 Local BBC radio stations. With a Daily Mail* article as impetus for the discussion and a selection of guests about whom it it is too soon to speculate, I jokingly suggested the following drinking game – but [...]
AMA: Ask Me Anything.
On May 12, 2013
People often stop me to ask me questions – be it social enterprise, polyamory, tattoos or something else. Generally, if asked appropriately, I’m happy to explain. (Read my answers here!)
Recently a few people have come to me specifically with questions arising from this blog that they didn’t want to put in [...]
Confusing Monogamy With Morality.
On May 12, 2013
Non-monogamy defines itself by exclusion. To understand it, we need to understand monogamy.
Most of us will believe we have a strong idea of what monogamy entails – but do we really? A recent study by Warren & Harvey (2011) concluded that fewer than 30% of self-defining “monogamous” couples had ever discussed what monogamy means [...]
R̶u̶n̶ ̶A̶ ̶M̶a̶r̶a̶t̶h̶o̶n̶ ✓
On April 24, 2013
I’ve talked about the ‘why’, and Lori blogged beautifully about the ‘for whom’, so all that remains to be said is how it went!
I ran a largely comfortable marathon! At a touch over 6 hours it wasn’t a ‘good’ time by any serious runner’s standard but despite losing almost 8 weeks [...]
Not such an edge case..
On April 8, 2013
Poly Means Many: There are many aspects of polyamory. Each month, the PMM bloggers will write about their views on one of them. This month we’re talking about “the ‘bad stuff’”. Links to all posts can be found at polymeansmany.com
All relationships have their ups and downs. Not just romantic [...]
Public BDSM Play and the Fourth Wall.
On March 11, 2013
Anyone who engages in safe BDSM play knows all too well the importance of good communication, negotiation and careful observation.
Any ‘scene’ that is embarked upon needs to have a huge range of security measures in operation. For experienced couples/groups playing in public, however, it can occasionally look like these security measures aren’t in [...]
Eroticon: Polyamory 101
On March 5, 2013
Last Sunday, 3rd March, Lori Smith and I held a ‘Polyamory 101′ session at the writers’ convention, Eroticon
From our point of view it was a chance to myth-bust or even introduce a brand new concept to the fantastic writers and curators of erotica who were in attendance.
I’m [...]
You Don’t Join The Navy If You’re A Pirate.
On March 4, 2013
Poly Means Many: There are many aspects of polyamory. Each month, the PMM bloggers will write about their views on one of them. This month we’re talking about “finding what is right for you”. Links to all posts can be found at polymeansmany.com
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